Parents have the responsibility and authority to make medical decisions for children after divorce. When parents of minor children do not live together, the right to make decisions about them must be allocated. The assignment of parental rights in Texas usually determines who will pay child support and when each parent will spend time with the kids. In Texas, the most important of these parental rights are in Family Code section 153.132;
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Section 153.132 (2) applies only to elective invasive procedures. Texas Family Code 153.073(8) allows either parent to consent to any medical care, including surgery, in an emergency (“…an immediate danger to the health and safety of the child”).
Section 153.074(3) allows a parent to consent to medical and dental care not involving an invasive procedure during that parent’s time with the child. Either may seek care for a sore throat, earache, etc. as long as it is not an invasive procedure.
Because each parent can consent to anything in an emergency and each can take the child for non-invasive care, only elective invasive procedures are included in Section 153.132(2).
It is unusual to have a problem with this right after the court order is in place. There are a few controversial elective procedures for children. There have been disagreements between parents with the recent controversy about vaccinations. However, most parents agree to follow the pediatrician’s recommendations about treatments such as ear tubes or tonsillectomies. Occasionally, there will be an issue with piercings, but those rarely make it to the courthouse.
Emotions can cause arguments about how this parental right is allocated. It rarely leads to problems after the court order is signed. The best choice is usually to follow the status quo to the extent possible. If one parent has typically made the medical decisions for the child, the order should follow that. If the decision-making parent would usually keep the other parent updated, then the order can require consultation and advance notice of treatment. If a parent’s judgment was trusted when their relationship was good, there is usually no reason to stop trusting it just because the parents end their marriage. Emotion and power issues can over-shadow this to the detriment of wise judgment and the children.
There are times when it is not appropriate to follow a past pattern. A parent might have a history of making poor decisions, could have developed substance abuse, or a mental illness.
If one parent made the daily medical decisions for their child or children, and has kept the other parent consistently updated, consider carefully whether there is a reason to change that. The inability to get along with each other doesn’t not mean that a parent has suddenly lost the ability to make good medical decisions.
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